The inner who embrace the outter. You are a badass review part 3

Off we go to the third part of my You Are a Badass review!

After all the how to raise your willing to love yourself more, now we are arriving in the part where you learn how to love yourself.

The first step to love yourself is simply embrace your inner badass.

First of all, you need to understand why all the self-development stuff begin with simply love yourself. Because, yes, love yourself is like the key to your life, if you love yourself everything would work eventually.

But, really how in the world we can start to love ourselves?

Living in this cruel world, you grow up infused by other people telling you are not good enough. You are not good enough to be happy, to study algebra, to cook the freaking indomie, or even to be loved. In fact, screw that, it's not about others, it's about you in the first place. Start to make yourself as your first priority. Listen into your guts than others' B.S.

You don't need no lover to tell you if you are the most wonderful human being, you can do that by yourself. Send yourself a love-letter, give yourself a movie night ticket, buy yourself a Large Chatime Matcha Tea Latte with a lot of Pearls. Think of it as if it's a spell. Therefore, you constantly be reminded that you are the most stunning people alive. 

Most importantly, stop compare yourself with others. The reason why we stuck in the zone and stressing on what others think of us is that we constantly compare ourselves to others. Your friend might be getting married next week, or on their way to the South Korea, or even in their 3^rd purchase on some high-priced moisturizer, but why in the world we should anxious about? We all have that so-called timing in our lives, maybe now it’s not your time, but it will surely arrive in the end of the day. So just focus on yourself.

"DO NOT WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME GIVING ONE SINGLE CRAP ABOUT WHAT ANYBODY ELSE THINKS OF YOU"

If you have a dream, hold on to it tightly, because it’s the way to identify who you truly are. Dream is like yourself motivation. Pay attention and practice it anytime possible. Screw it if you don’t have one! Find it, find a mentor, hero, role model or even ask for others’ help. Because sometimes other people can see what we wanted to be, but try to be more sharp to it because in the end it is your own life.

But what if you still can't find your dream? BE ALLIEN! Yes, you heard that allien. Behave as if you are the new citizen of this world. Start to see everything in the new perspective. Figure everything out as if you are the newly baby born. Look around and see more specifically to the things that turn you on. By that, you would realize how fortunate your life is, you start see a lot of opportunity hidden.

Sometimes, the way you have choose is different than the rest. But, that doesn't mean you should stop on what you are doing, and change that all over again. 

"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not."

Start to know yourself better. Be your own friend, supportive fans or even your own guardian. Accept all your perfections and imperfections. Know that you are better than others in so many extraordinary way.  Embrace your inner badass, so your appearance start to reveal who you are. When you enjoy and feel yourself, you know that you are in midst to love yourself journey.