thoughts about men and women

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Actually, I'm nowhere can relate to this book, but this book, you'd see why men and women can be so different.

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is a book written by John Gray, it's about how men and women are different in various way. Specifically created for couple, in hope they could understand each other well, and keep the relationship for a long run.

As I said, this book is nowhere relate to me.

IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN

This book has 11 chapters, one of them is How to Motivate Opposite Sex. This chapters explain the situation when a woman loves a man.

This book said that, originally women believed that someday a men would come to her, and solve all her problems, sweep off of her feet and take her to a kingdom where she can be a queen to her king. Men are so helpless that they need women to be served by their power and competence. However, women on the other hand, to come out of depression they crave the loving help that men promises.

However, most men is clueless of how important it is to women to feel supported, loved and cherished. Most men forget that we, women is so much different than men, especially on how we face problems. 

Men would make time for himself, just to clear his head to solve his problems. Along with his clueless, they shove women away who tried to help him. In other hand, in coping the problems, women need someone who listen to their problems, regardless on the subject, men just had to listen without trying to serve any solutions. However, neither of them understand this situation, and often ruin the relationship. 

Both men and women should understand this

 
Because love happen everywhere in any cases, love is as simple as that. It's both men and women that make it looks like it is a lot of hard work.

 

However in my case, sometimes you just have to say this..

Just because relationship could be toxic, and men can be a snake.

As a woman sometimes you don't always need a men to listen to all your problems, hoping they could solve your problem, or even make your life complete. Women is strong creature that need nobody to make her become anybody she desired.

Women can be a President.

Women can be an FBI Agent.

Women can be a Queen.

Women can change the world.